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Good Character

See how truthfulness, respectful speech, family care, mercy, and self-control shape everyday relationships.

Last reviewed on 4 October 2026

Key concepts

  1. Truthfulness and trustworthy speech

    The Prophet taught that truthfulness leads to righteousness. Honest speech helps people trust one another and supports a life in which words and actions agree.

    He also taught a person to speak good or remain silent, and named breaking promises as a sign of hypocrisy. These teachings encourage care before speaking and seriousness about commitments.

  2. Respecting people’s dignity

    The Quran forbids mocking others and spying on their private affairs. Respect includes the way people are discussed as well as the way they are treated face to face.

    The Prophet defined backbiting as mentioning something about a person that they dislike, even when it is true. An untrue accusation is slander. Understanding these terms helps a person recognise harmful speech.

  3. Neighbours and guests

    A neighbour should be safe from a believer’s harm. The Prophet strongly warned about behaviour that leaves neighbours afraid, making safety and consideration part of the responsibilities of faith.

    He also instructed believers to honour their guests. Hospitality and concern for neighbours bring kindness into the spaces where people live and meet.

  4. Parents and family ties

    When asked who deserved good companionship most, the Prophet named the questioner’s mother first. This highlights the care and respect owed to parents, especially the mother’s claim to attentive treatment.

    Maintaining family ties includes making an effort even when relatives have cut them. The Prophet also instructed Asma to maintain a good relationship with her non-Muslim mother, showing the continuing importance of family care.

  5. Greetings and respect for boundaries

    Quran 4:86 teaches that a greeting should be returned with an equal or better greeting. Responding warmly acknowledges the person and helps create goodwill.

    Respect also includes accepting another person’s boundaries. Quran 24:28 instructs someone who is told to go back from a home to do so, recognising the residents’ right to privacy.

  6. Wishing good and showing a cheerful face

    The Prophet taught a believer to wish for their fellow Muslim the same good they wish for themselves. This encourages generosity of heart and concern for another person’s wellbeing.

    Meeting someone with a cheerful face is a good deed that should not be belittled. Small signs of welcome can help people feel respected and at ease.

  7. Strength through self-control

    The Prophet described the truly strong person as the one who controls themselves when angry. This places strength in the ability to govern behaviour during a difficult emotional moment.

    Self-control protects relationships from words and actions that cause lasting harm. It gives a person room to respond with fairness and restraint.

  8. Care for people in need

    Visiting a sick Muslim is named among the rights Muslims have towards one another. A visit can offer companionship and show that a person remains valued during illness.

    The Prophet compared caring for widows and poor people to striving in Allah’s cause. Service to those facing hardship therefore has a significant place in a life of faith.

  9. Mercy towards children

    The Prophet showed affection to his grandchildren and taught the importance of mercy. His example encourages adults to treat children with warmth, tenderness, and patient attention.

    Children learn about kindness through the care they receive. Showing them affection gives practical expression to the mercy encouraged throughout Muslim character.

Further reading and resources

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